Yesterday,
the world awoke to the sad news that we had lost one of Britain’s best loved
icons, Sir Terry Wogan.
In
a month that has seen the loss of too many much-loved figures, such as Lemmy
from Motorhead, the one and only David Bowie, Glenn Frey of The Eagles, Dale
Griffin of Mott The Hoople, to name but a few, the news of Terry Wogan’s death
was like the final insult. It seemed as if day after day, we would access our
social media and almost immediately be open mouthed and exclaiming, “Oh no”,
trotting of to break the news to our other half and asking the pointless
question, “Guess who’s died now?”
It
affected me more than I ever imagined it would.
I
cried.
When
I reflected as to why this should be, why should I be so affected by the
passing of a man, who after all, reached the good age of 77, lived a
comfortable life in the public eye, had a loving family, and who I had never
met? Why?
I
came to the conclusion that Terry Wogan has simply always been there. As much a
part of my life as a well loved Uncle. I grew up listening to his Irish blarney
every morning before I left for school. I recall my dad sitting at the
breakfast table, letting out one of his great guffaws of laughter at something
Terry Wogan had said. At the time of course, with hormones coursing through my
bloodstream like poison, I would pull a face of utter disgust. “For God’s sake
dad” I would opine in my best teenage sneering voice, “It wasn’t THAT funny”.
But do you know what? It really was.
When
I left home aged only 19, guess what? I abandoned Radio 1, defecting to Terry
and Radio 2 and listened to him all the time. He was more than a superb DJ with
a sense of timing, a turn of phrase, and a twinkle in his voice as he spoke to
us. He was my link with my parents, my home, and my past.
I
wrote to him once; I was 21, and shared some anecdote about daily life, but he
read it out and I felt elated. Terry Wogan had READ my letter out on the radio.
I remember so well my mum ringing me from 80 miles away, “Did you hear it?” she
enthused, “He read your letter”. “I know” I beamed, “I know”. Good times.
I
lost both my parents when I was in my 20’s. Their loss was a hammer blow, from
which I never truly recovered, but Terry was still there and as I listened, I’d
think to myself with a smile, “Dad would have liked that” or “Oh mum would have
laughed to hear that one”, and so the link continued.
How
many of you remember the JR saga of the 80’s? I followed it with absolute
delight. Long before we had Facebook, Twitter and the rest, Terry Wogan was
uniting the country with his easy wit and absolute charm.
I
qualified as a child protection social worker in 2001, and on my way to work,
Terry was always with me, and many of my colleagues. He gave us a cheery start
to days, which were less than joyous. We’d trickle into the office one by one
and often ask, “Did you listen to Terry Wogan this morning?” And there would be
laughter, shaking of heads and comments about his repartee. Whether it be Janet
and John, or just his well-known characters, Edna Bucket, Lou Smorrels, Dora
Jar and my personal favourite Chuffer Dandridge. His double entendre’s were
legendary and I would find myself wondering how he got away with some of them,
so close were they to the bone.
He
will never know how important he was to so many of us, in that small triumph of
making us smile in the misery and sadness of our jobs.
Oft
times I would be out of the office early, while Terry was still broadcasting. I
would literally have to pull over, tears of laughter coursing down my face
especially with Janet and John, read in the presence of the ever faithful John “Boggy”
Marsh. Along with Lynn Bowles and Alan Dedicote;
the mere mention of their names brought me comfort; it was something reliable,
solid and dependable. I remember the feeling of sharp disappointment if I tuned
in to find Terry was on holiday and someone else was standing in. I would
exclaim in annoyance, no one did the breakfast show like Terry.
As
I got older, there was absolutely no doubt, I had become a TOG – one of Terry’s
Old Gits. I wondered what my mum and dad would have said about THAT.
Of
course, Terry’s talents were not confined to radio. A supreme TV broadcaster,
he had us tuning into the terrible Eurovision Song Contest, simply to hear his
acerbic commentary and comments. ………….. Priceless.
His
presentation of the BBC’s annual Children in Need was also a “must watch”
event. There was just something so British about the whole thing. You had to be
a part of it.
To
say he will be missed is an understatement. He was part of the fabric of the
country, a true legend, with real talent.
For
me, he was the thread that linked me to times gone by, times, I could revisit,
simply by hearing that lovely Irish brogue, which never failed to bring a smile.
Now
he’s gone and really, it just won’t be the same, not ever.
My
thoughts and condolences are with his family at this time L
Goodnight Sir Terry, and thank you so very much for your gift to us all. xxxxx
Freya
